Sunday, December 16, 2007

Lifestyles Ideas Management - Fat Does Not Matter If Partners Are Happy

Women are more willing to overlook the fact that their partner is over-weight.
I have seen intelligent and gorgeous woman who adore their boyfriends with bad skin; overwhelming love handles or huge beer bellies.
This is because the men make them laugh, are attentive and take really good care of them and not because these overweight men are richer and big spenders.

Some may say that these men overcompensate for their lack of physical attraction by being overly nice. But in reality, there is only so much one’s physical appearance can do for you. Outer beauty last for the first impression, the inner beauty is the one that outlast the first. At the end of the day, what everyone wants is someone to hold on to in good and bad times. Size does not matter if both people are happy with each other. The ability to share one’s mind with the other person is what brings two persons together.

Fat girls have it harder than guys – because men are generally more superficial and seek validation from the appearance of their partner.
If your partner is overweight, go for a workout with him or her for health reasons and not because you are ashamed to be with some one who is overweight.
Being overweight is not a crime and ostracizing overweight people and belittling them based on appearance is shallow and unbecoming.

Beautiful is in the heart, soul and mind and not quite just appearance, although appearance counts in the first impression when two strangers meet. Accepting the other parties as a unique person is the sign of matured personality.